It’s easy to be remarkably unsuccessful by blaming others. The other downside is that you can do nothing if someone else is at fault. The best you can do is hope they’ll step up and fix the situation for you. Let’s face it: playing the blame game is always a lose-lose situation.
However, when you take responsibility, you give yourself permission and the motivation to resolve your challenges, and you will succeed.
It’s possible that you:
? had horrible parents
? were made fun of by your third-grade teacher
? had a boss who enjoyed making you miserable
? lack talent
? lack education
? are old or young
The list goes on.
If you want to be successful, you must take responsibility for everything in your life, good or bad. You must also forgive those in your past and move on.
While the circumstances may not be your fault, no one else will take responsibility for improving the situation. You can fix anything if you’re willing to hold yourself responsible. Any other perspective creates a sense of helplessness.
Even if you lack talent, education, or opportunities, using those as excuses accomplishes nothing. A lack of talent can be overcome with hard work. A lack of education can’t stand up to a library full of books.
Create your own opportunities.
No one’s parents attended formal parenting school. Even if you were horribly mistreated, the only sensible option is to let it go and get on with your life.
Realise that your past choices have resulted in your current situation. Your current choices will determine your future situation.
Avoid blaming outside issues for your predicament. The blame game is a dead-end street.
Instead- take control of your life by taking responsibility for everything.
The saying goes, “With great power comes great responsibility.” It’s just as accurate to say, “With great responsibility comes great power.” Use your power.
“Turning pro is a mindset. If we are struggling with fear, self-sabotage, procrastination, self-doubt, etc., the problem is that we’re thinking like amateurs. Amateurs don’t show up. Amateurs crap out. Amateurs let adversity defeat them. The pro thinks differently. He shows up, does his work, and keeps on truckin’, no matter what.”
– Steven Pressfield
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