God was there when we were woven together in our mother’s womb and are dependent on him from birth. Since before we were born, and God has loved us and been faithful to us.
Eight easy steps to turn a setback or failure into a Comeback.
A setback doesn’t have to be the end of your dreams. Look at it this way, a setback might be exactly what you need to get where you want to be. A setback may be a blessing in disguise!!
Have you been let down? How to overcome disappointment.
how can one be rid of the feeling of disappointment and move on?
When lies destroy your life. My ongoing human saga of unfilled Promises
I am not a millionaire or a leader in business matters because I am too soft. I am a nurturer, a healer; however, does that mean that I should not develop enough thick skin to avoid been taken advantage of?
Looking After your Body- How to Reduce Stress in Women Over 50 Today.
We’d all like to reduce Stress in our lives, but Steering through the changes that middle life presents causes Stress – No Joke!
#62 The Fractured Family -How to Cope with Estrangement.
Estrangement causes your inner gut to twist and turn to make you feel physically sick….
#60 Tips on How Stop Over Eating PART TWO.
Eating Mindfully is not about counting calories. Mindful eating can free you from the counting treadmill. Instead of counting calories and worrying about what you eat, you can build a positive and enjoyable relationship with food, leading to a happier and healthier you.
#47 How to Handle Being Misunderstood
When misunderstandings cause family estrangement ..
#45 The Mindfulness Habit: How to Start Your Day with Joy
Start your day mindfully and begin as you swing your legs out of bed…
#40 How Holistic Living Improves Your Spiritual health.
I take a holistic approach to my personal life and work….
#33 Christians And Medical Care
When we are unwell or in need of any kind, we must pursue medical advice,
#11 Through the Pandemic of the Coronavirus – We Grieved
Where is our memory stored? The materialist’s answer is in the brain’s hippocampus for long-term memories and the brain’s neocortex. A more subtle answer would say that all memory is stored in the deeper level of consciousness. Alan Wallace said we don’t think that a computer’s memory is stored in the keyboard. Why should we think the brain makes us conscious?
Living in Australia, one of the places I practised nursing was in the Southern Cross Catholic Residential Home. One lady who was one of my patients suffered from late-stage Alzheimer’s and could not communicate at all. Her daughters decided they would tell her that her husband, their father, had died, although they knew she would be unresponsive. She was chattering meaninglessly and appeared to be in another world, but when they told her of her husband’s death, she stopped chattering, and tears rolled down her cheeks.
That may not prove anything scientific about memory. Still, it suggests something about consciousness surviving the atrophy of the brain just as it has been shown to survive the clinical death of patients under medical care. To see someone whom we have lived with and loved for a lifetime lose their memory and drift away from us is dying while alive.
Through this pandemic of the coronavirus, we grieve over the countless lives lost. Death seems to be ever-present with us in these days. We pass through death at many intensity levels in our lifetime (Psalm 23). And yet, as with this patient, a core of consciousness connects us. Even when all the signs show that awareness has flickered out.
The persistence of deep memory – and love is a kind of memory continuously remembered and renewed – does not negate death. Love, like faith, is eternal. This is because God is Love itself, and God is eternal. Our faith in Christ is deep within our consciousness and goes beyond our physical death, allowing heaven to touch the earth.
Deep memory/consciousness transcends death and shows that life is a tremendous constant beyond physical death. Life is inextinguishable; we are eternal beings. Consciousness is life, and memory shows that love is stronger than death. Personal relationships teach us this. So does Jesus Christ, who teaches that we are transmitted in a stream of consciousness of a living memory that connects us to our source, God, and connects us to each other while carried forward on our individual journey.
For all of us today, our individual journeys in life are connected by the threat and fear of the coronavirus. For some of us, it has already meant the death of loved ones. For all, it triggers the awareness of our mortality and the uncertainties of change that we cannot control.
In such dark times, however, the memory of life experienced as a spiritual journey beginning and ending in mystery, full of inexplicable pain and joy but also full of wonder.
It is faith in the end that frees us from fear. We are first exposed to our real predicament: not having a spiritual path in times like this, lacking a source of meaning, and not seeing the spark of life hidden in the darkness of our deaths. All these are symptoms of another virus rampant in our materialism and delusion. Faith in Christ is the remedy which overcomes the fear of death and dying.
Our spiritual life cannot be separated from our everyday existence, being isolated at home with others or alone: we can make a realistic timetable including the things we need and want to do and post it where you will see it through the day. Consider if it feels balanced for your daily needs. Does it represent your everyday regular needs? Such as physical needs, mental needs and spiritual needs?
Adjusting to a daily rhythm to fulfil your basic human needs is the first step to getting a handle on the feeling of fear, panic and uncertainty. It is a step to curing the virus of fear and panic. It helps us to see health, death, and spirituality differently, even during a pandemic. When we have re-connected to the sense of the present, trusting in God, we will find that peace – the peace we lost in all that stress – is closer to us, deeper within us than we had ever imagined.
Try this Out!
Love & Grace
Paula Rose Parish IHS
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?Psalm 23 Unwrapped: Hope in Difficult Times.
#10 Are You Living on the Edge ?
Last year, a clifftop street at Hensby in Norfolk began to crumble into the sea as Britain’s coastline was battered by wild weather from the beast from the east.
One homeowner described feeling a sudden tremble like an “earthquake” as the cliff gave way, and so did his house.
After days of high winds, a garden shed and an oil tank plummeted into the sea, and waves eroded the sandstone. Houses were left teetering on the EDGE!
Hemsby, Norfolk, has been deemed “too dangerous” for the residents of 13 chalets who have been evacuated and may lose their homes, and there is a “perfect chance” six of the properties will collapse into the sea. This is what it means to live on the edge- quite literally.
But what about thinking of living on the edge as a Metaphor?
The average person lives a life of quiet desperation. There are many things to experience, but they cannot. There are many things he or she does not want to do that he or she is forced to do because many sacrifices must be made to earn a living. Day in and day out, one must keep doing the same things in the same way to survive.
Life can become repetitive; for some, it feels like there is no way out.
But there is another type of human being who revolts against this mundane life, revels in the unpredictable and the unexpected, always takes risks, flirts with danger, and believes in living on the edge.
A true-life story of a which occurred recently. A young woman on her 18th birthday parachuted out of a plane to celebrate this milestone. But sadly, the celebration turned to tragedy as she plummeted to the ground. The parachute failed to open. She lived on the edge and lost.
In every profession—business, sports, politics or movies— there are people whose adventurous streak never lets them rest in peace, who are forever on the move, going out of their way to do the most extraordinary things because they believe in living on the edge. For many people, such a life seems exciting and colourful, and they would give anything to lead a similar life. Only if they had the guts, time and money!
But how healthy or desirable is such a life? Boredom may be bad for one’s health, but so is the constant pumping of adrenaline into one’s bloodstream that results in a risk-taking lifestyle. The risk of an untimely death is indeed real, as we have seen.
Looking at the teachings of Jesus Christ. Doesn’t the real art of living lies in the ability to find meaning and wholeness in the ordinary things of life? In the now, in this moment? The epistles declare to us a guideline on the best way to live
1 Timothy 2:2 Pray for kings and all in positions of high authority so that we may live a peaceful and quiet life in all godliness and dignity.
Whether it’s living on the edge quite literary as in Hornsby Norfolk or metaphorically jumping out of planes, whichever way one looks at it, living on the edge is certainly a risky and perhaps an unpredictable way to live – it’s not sure or solid, it’s transitory. There’s a popular that tells us that living on The edge feels much better!
And maybe it does feel so much better, but that feeling does not last. Maybe one has to create that feel-good factor to keep living on the edge, but it seems to me that living on the edge is just chasing feel-good feelings, but when that moment fades, when that feel-good feeling goes, then what?
A quiet and peaceful life is precious, and we will find it in prayer and following our Lord Christ. And, of course, following Christ is not without excitement; we can live our life to the Max in Christ and find all the adventure we can handle!
Love & Grace
Paula Rose Parish IHS
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#9 Reflections for the Golden Years
Isaiah 46:4 And I will still be carrying you when you are old. Your hair will turn grey, and I will still carry you. Saith the Lord, I made you, and I will carry you to safety.
We all know that at any age, there can be times when we seem to have a variety of aches and pains, which prompt us to think that a personal MOT might be timely! The fact of having a few chronic health issues doesn’t stop the majority of our ‘good bits’ from functioning really well. Indeed, people often speak of the compensation one gets for the loss of a sense. So, it is important to focus on the areas where all is still well.
As we age, we have a challenge in continuing to do those things we have always been able to handle as well as possible. We may not be as swift in our movements as before, but does that really matter? Younger people can be impetuous and, as in driving, go unnecessarily fast.
But as we age, to remain healthy in mind and body, we should calmly adjust to the speed to suit our mind and body (plus the rules of the road). It’s important to realize that we should never feel guilty by slowing down and doing things differently. I have a friend who ended up with a massive heart attack and was diagnosed due to stress because she refused to slow down as she was approaching her 70s.
Slowing down does not mean giving up, although many interpret it that way. Slowing down means being wise, listening to one’s body and mind and not pushing ourselves to exhaustion. God wants us to enjoy each day. God wants us to smell the roses, as they say, and enjoy the sky and the flowers. All there is to see and appreciate as we move through our day. If you had a beloved pet who became a part of the family but has now grown old, you would notice that he slows to his own speed, and you accept that with understanding and offer him comfort.
The old family pet drops some of his youthful tricks, finds himself a place in the sun, and does not fret about his new situation. It doesn’t preoccupy or cause him to wonder what other pets will think of their changed routine. How wise!
Of course, we also need to find the appropriate ‘place in the sun’ for ourselves as we age. A comfortable chair is a special gift to oneself. But a comfortable frame of mind is a ‘freebie’ that is even more rewarding.
However, Watching out for any sign of disinterest in people and exaggerated self-pity is essential. Regrets about past actions must be left behind with the realization that there is no change. You had ups and downs.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Like your pet, find activities you are comfortable with. Some may still climb up the nearest mountain. Others prefer to sit on the bank of the stream with their toes in the water. Choice, freedom and responsibility are blessings from God. Learn to practice contemplative prayer, go on retreats, be still and know that God is with you and IN you.
The golden years can be happy days of growth and creativity. It’s up to you!
Ruth 4:15: He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age.
Love & Grace
Paula Rose Parish IHS
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