We really are our own worst enemy, working at cross purposes against our own best interest. We want meaning, purpose, and peace of mind, but we aren’t ready to strive or sacrifice for it. Why?
How to Count the Cost before entering the Ministry and avoid tears.
People don’t often realise that the minister just can’t take a Sunday off on the spur of the moment because we must often plan a year ahead and can’t have random time off.
How to Pray: Five Simple Steps to Centering Prayer.
This method of prayer is traditionally called Centering Prayer, which denotes focus, to be present with, and to find balance.
When lies destroy your life. My ongoing human saga of unfilled Promises
I am not a millionaire or a leader in business matters because I am too soft. I am a nurturer, a healer; however, does that mean that I should not develop enough thick skin to avoid been taken advantage of?
#63 Mindfulness is NOT a Religion
Mindfulness is not a religious practice but a skill, used in Christianity and beyond, that with enough practice can become second nature.
#59 Twenty Tips How to Stop Over Eating to Improve Health -PART ONE.
Mindfulness will help you to Develop the habit to become aware of your bodily sensations …
#48 How I started Journaling and Struggles I encountered -Part two
Mindful Journaling is a practice that focuses your attention and awareness..
#44 How I Use Colouring Therapy
I use Colouring for healing of worries, loss, and past hurts..
#42 How to Grow, and Improve Self Awareness with Mindfulness and Meditation
Change of circumstance and then learning new ways of doing things is terrifying and leave me feeling vulnerable….
#11 Through the Pandemic of the Coronavirus – We Grieved
Where is our memory stored? The materialist’s answer is in the brain’s hippocampus for long-term memories and the brain’s neocortex. A more subtle answer would say that all memory is stored in the deeper level of consciousness. Alan Wallace said we don’t think that a computer’s memory is stored in the keyboard. Why should we think the brain makes us conscious?
Living in Australia, one of the places I practised nursing was in the Southern Cross Catholic Residential Home. One lady who was one of my patients suffered from late-stage Alzheimer’s and could not communicate at all. Her daughters decided they would tell her that her husband, their father, had died, although they knew she would be unresponsive. She was chattering meaninglessly and appeared to be in another world, but when they told her of her husband’s death, she stopped chattering, and tears rolled down her cheeks.
That may not prove anything scientific about memory. Still, it suggests something about consciousness surviving the atrophy of the brain just as it has been shown to survive the clinical death of patients under medical care. To see someone whom we have lived with and loved for a lifetime lose their memory and drift away from us is dying while alive.
Through this pandemic of the coronavirus, we grieve over the countless lives lost. Death seems to be ever-present with us in these days. We pass through death at many intensity levels in our lifetime (Psalm 23). And yet, as with this patient, a core of consciousness connects us. Even when all the signs show that awareness has flickered out.
The persistence of deep memory – and love is a kind of memory continuously remembered and renewed – does not negate death. Love, like faith, is eternal. This is because God is Love itself, and God is eternal. Our faith in Christ is deep within our consciousness and goes beyond our physical death, allowing heaven to touch the earth.
Deep memory/consciousness transcends death and shows that life is a tremendous constant beyond physical death. Life is inextinguishable; we are eternal beings. Consciousness is life, and memory shows that love is stronger than death. Personal relationships teach us this. So does Jesus Christ, who teaches that we are transmitted in a stream of consciousness of a living memory that connects us to our source, God, and connects us to each other while carried forward on our individual journey.
For all of us today, our individual journeys in life are connected by the threat and fear of the coronavirus. For some of us, it has already meant the death of loved ones. For all, it triggers the awareness of our mortality and the uncertainties of change that we cannot control.
In such dark times, however, the memory of life experienced as a spiritual journey beginning and ending in mystery, full of inexplicable pain and joy but also full of wonder.
It is faith in the end that frees us from fear. We are first exposed to our real predicament: not having a spiritual path in times like this, lacking a source of meaning, and not seeing the spark of life hidden in the darkness of our deaths. All these are symptoms of another virus rampant in our materialism and delusion. Faith in Christ is the remedy which overcomes the fear of death and dying.
Our spiritual life cannot be separated from our everyday existence, being isolated at home with others or alone: we can make a realistic timetable including the things we need and want to do and post it where you will see it through the day. Consider if it feels balanced for your daily needs. Does it represent your everyday regular needs? Such as physical needs, mental needs and spiritual needs?
Adjusting to a daily rhythm to fulfil your basic human needs is the first step to getting a handle on the feeling of fear, panic and uncertainty. It is a step to curing the virus of fear and panic. It helps us to see health, death, and spirituality differently, even during a pandemic. When we have re-connected to the sense of the present, trusting in God, we will find that peace – the peace we lost in all that stress – is closer to us, deeper within us than we had ever imagined.
Try this Out!
Love & Grace
Paula Rose Parish IHS
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?Psalm 23 Unwrapped: Hope in Difficult Times.
#10 Are You Living on the Edge ?
Last year, a clifftop street at Hensby in Norfolk began to crumble into the sea as Britain’s coastline was battered by wild weather from the beast from the east.
One homeowner described feeling a sudden tremble like an “earthquake” as the cliff gave way, and so did his house.
After days of high winds, a garden shed and an oil tank plummeted into the sea, and waves eroded the sandstone. Houses were left teetering on the EDGE!
Hemsby, Norfolk, has been deemed “too dangerous” for the residents of 13 chalets who have been evacuated and may lose their homes, and there is a “perfect chance” six of the properties will collapse into the sea. This is what it means to live on the edge- quite literally.
But what about thinking of living on the edge as a Metaphor?
The average person lives a life of quiet desperation. There are many things to experience, but they cannot. There are many things he or she does not want to do that he or she is forced to do because many sacrifices must be made to earn a living. Day in and day out, one must keep doing the same things in the same way to survive.
Life can become repetitive; for some, it feels like there is no way out.
But there is another type of human being who revolts against this mundane life, revels in the unpredictable and the unexpected, always takes risks, flirts with danger, and believes in living on the edge.
A true-life story of a which occurred recently. A young woman on her 18th birthday parachuted out of a plane to celebrate this milestone. But sadly, the celebration turned to tragedy as she plummeted to the ground. The parachute failed to open. She lived on the edge and lost.
In every profession—business, sports, politics or movies— there are people whose adventurous streak never lets them rest in peace, who are forever on the move, going out of their way to do the most extraordinary things because they believe in living on the edge. For many people, such a life seems exciting and colourful, and they would give anything to lead a similar life. Only if they had the guts, time and money!
But how healthy or desirable is such a life? Boredom may be bad for one’s health, but so is the constant pumping of adrenaline into one’s bloodstream that results in a risk-taking lifestyle. The risk of an untimely death is indeed real, as we have seen.
Looking at the teachings of Jesus Christ. Doesn’t the real art of living lies in the ability to find meaning and wholeness in the ordinary things of life? In the now, in this moment? The epistles declare to us a guideline on the best way to live
1 Timothy 2:2 Pray for kings and all in positions of high authority so that we may live a peaceful and quiet life in all godliness and dignity.
Whether it’s living on the edge quite literary as in Hornsby Norfolk or metaphorically jumping out of planes, whichever way one looks at it, living on the edge is certainly a risky and perhaps an unpredictable way to live – it’s not sure or solid, it’s transitory. There’s a popular that tells us that living on The edge feels much better!
And maybe it does feel so much better, but that feeling does not last. Maybe one has to create that feel-good factor to keep living on the edge, but it seems to me that living on the edge is just chasing feel-good feelings, but when that moment fades, when that feel-good feeling goes, then what?
A quiet and peaceful life is precious, and we will find it in prayer and following our Lord Christ. And, of course, following Christ is not without excitement; we can live our life to the Max in Christ and find all the adventure we can handle!
Love & Grace
Paula Rose Parish IHS
For more articles, visit Your Wellness Matters at www.paularoseparish.com. And if this article has helped you in a small way, please like it and comment.
For helpful articles on converting from Protestantism to Catholicism and videos visit ALMOST CATHOLIC at http://almostcatholic.blog
Visit My YouTube Channel- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIHzAbvL5Wdjlh4Q57XHEDA
I have worked internationally with over 40 years of experience, having a Bachelor of Pastoral Counselling and Theology and a Master of Arts in Counselling & Professional Development. BACP Life Coaching Certificate. I currently work as a Christian educator, blogger, author, and grandmother living with my two dogs in Wales, UK.
If you wish to connect with me, please do so at paularoseparish@gmail.com
?Want to help support me as an author? My books are available at AMAZON.
?Psalm 23 Unwrapped: Hope in Difficult Times.
#4 Psalm 46:10 for Advent
life gets far too busy at times. advent can be a time, to take stock of the next year ahead. Its a time in the midst of busyness, to stop & be still.











